Archive for July, 2012

Team sports, combat sports and other life entertainment.

Posted in Uncategorized on July 23, 2012 by theonimoraitis

Life and relationships are like games or sporting events, you’re either in or out, participating or not, in the supporters stand or absent. The great Master Osho talks about ‘relating’ to one another and self when he discusses relationships in his book “love, freedom, aloneness, The Koan Of Relationships”.  The actual word ‘relate’ has many definitions.

One of them is from the Latin word relātus meaning brought back, already we observe a great energy taking place simply by the bringing back of whatever it is we wish to relate to. Imagine in a relationship, it is insignificant the ‘who’ or ’what’ the relationship is with, the important theme really, is that in any type of relationship, we are unconsciously searching for a reference point; a point that allows our physical being to feel comfortable or familiar with. That is the very element of our ego self (the human/logic/conscious mind) that needs to fulfill its occupation of protector and survivor.

The reference point is in our past experiences, and these experiences have attachments to them that are associated with an emotional energy of love or fear.

We meet with a current situation and automatically and unconsciously we begin the search. The search is to find relatedness or reference in order for our ego self (the human/logic/conscious mind), to feel “this is good” or “this is bad”. According to this context we choose to continue the experience or not, which is paradoxically determined by your soul contract (blue print).

Plato spoke of the “plane between worlds” which he described as the place where souls went to be judged. Then a decision was made on what, if any, other lessons there were still to be learned and the souls accordingly chose their next journey/blue print as well as the cast and the story for their next incarnation. Before entering the plane of earth, however, the souls would go through the river of forgetfulness. What would be the point if we knew everything before it happened?

Have you ever used the words “I heard the bells ringing but I ignored them” or “I knew I shouldn’t have…”?  So why do we ignore the bells or our ‘gut’ feel? There is something in our psyche that draws us into it. We create the situation we need to grow from.  The experience of that incident is needed. Unconsciously we choose the experience according to our blue print. This is where we meet with the paradox. Free will or choice versus soul contract.  We as humans are taught or conditioned to believe certain types of information about ourselves. Depending on our conditioning, we choose the experience we need in order to create more reference points.  These reference points become the substance of our emotions. Either the emotion is fear based or it is love based. We go out into our world to search for a relationship that will show us how to love ourselves. We do this mostly unconsciously.

The energy of relationship with others is about reference points to Self.

Explore the possibility that your relationship is a manifestation of your reference points according to your past experiences, conditioned beliefs and/or the lessons you believe you have learnt through these experiences. Are your team players serving your highest good? Has your solo game (choosing to be alone) positively taught you to relate to your self and therefore others?

If you answer ‘no’, then by choosing to use your conscious mind; your awakened self, you can now discover and create a new source of communication and enjoy a love based energy experience instead. Choose to contribute in your love and life.

Theoni Moraitis 2012

Authur of T.H.E.O.N.I. Way – A collection of original inspirational messages